Tuesday 5 November 2013

Three Things That Make a True Friend

             True friend are very hard to find.  Most people will come across a few in their life.  Although one may have many acquaintances that he or she will call “friends,” most of them are not really true friends.  A true friend is someone that you can call your best friend at all times.  I probably have about five true friends in my life.  These amazing people are honest will all things, unless they are playing a small joke, as trustworthy as a person can get, and they are compatible with myself.  This compatibility consists of senses of humor, ways of life that we can relate to each other, and the same type of fun that we are willing to have.  My great friends are always there if I need advice or help with something.  To me they are considered brothers.  I have no real blood related brothers however my friends are just as close.   Three qualities of true friends are trustworthiness, brotherly love, and the ability to have a fun time with you.
             Trustworthiness is important in all types of relationship, whether it is a friendly relationship or a love relationship.  Trustworthiness is a good quality to have and will make people see you as a great person.  True friends should have trustworthiness, whether it is to keep a secret or to trust someone with an object.  All my true friend are trustworthy and I know that they would never lie about anything serious.  I can also trust them to keep me updated on all things that might be of interest to me.  They are not only trustworthy, but open too.  This is one of the main things that separates friends from true friends. 
           The second thing that I mentioned about a true friend was brotherly love.  This is the type of friend relationship in which you would do anything for the other person. It’s a connection that would last a life time.  Brotherly love is the same emotion that you would show to a true brother.  I believe that you must have a connection as strong as this to someone in order to call that person a true friend.
            The last quality in a true friend is probably one of the most important.  Ask yourself if you had fun when hanging out with your friends.  Did you enjoy yourself, or did you waste hours of your life?   Were you put under peer pressure?  If you did not feel like you had a good time, then you should reconsider the people that you hang out with.  A true friend will always be fun to hang out with.  Even if it something as boring as detention, your true friends will make you have a great fun time. Anything boring can be turned into a great pastime with the combined minds of you and your true friends.  Having fun in your life is very important because if you don’t, you would not have anything great to remember when you are older.  A fun life is a life that has been lived to the fullest and to have achieved this you need to be able to identify a true friend from just a friend.  Friends are just people who you are cool with, but true friends are equivalent of blood brothers.   
           A true friend is vitally important to find in your life.  These type of people will make your life enjoyable, and don’t say that you cannot find a true friend because there are many people who are just like you out there.  True friends would do anything for you, are one hundred percent trustworthy, and will have a great time hanging out with you.

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